GETTING TO KNOW YOU TO BETTER HELP YOU

Knowing you Better

Every visit

Every activity

Helps us to know the children better

This allows us to better help them

Not just physical and financial hardship

Also the growth and change of life

Helping you Better

Guiding and instilling you with courage

During a game reflection session in the character class, Xiaoqi chose three cards to express her mood at the time: "nervous, scared, and inferior."

She feels inferior because her sister didn't come today and she's a little worried about herself; she's nervous because there's no familiar person around; she's afraid because she's worried that a bad uncle will suddenly come and take her away.

In her heart, her sister is the relative who has the greatest influence on her and she is the most dependent on her.

When Xiao He was in elementary school, he was introverted and could not handle the relationship between classmates and teachers. His friendships were few and he often closed himself in his small world. Now that he is in junior high school, he suddenly felt more hopeful. He studies hard and makes good friends in school. He has begun to paint again. When we heard the news, we immediately contacted a professional painting teacher to provide Xiaohe with training.

We are particularly grateful that Xiao He has made such a big change. This also reminds us that the children's state of mind is often caused by the indifference encountered from others. As long as they can feel a little care, they will not close their hearts easily.

Xiaoqi and Xiaohe may represent the majority of children in the project. What they need is love and companionship to eliminate their loneliness and open their closed hearts. But who can accompany them for a lifetime? They need to rely on the strength of their hearts to be strong. They need to be encouraged and given courage. May they find the strength and courage to face their lives!

Learn to accept and be grateful

While eating, something unpleasant happened between Xiao Nan and her mother (who has intellectual disabilities). Xiao Nan’s mother was not be used to figuring amounts for a larger group, so there was a lot left over. Xiaonan probably felt that her mother was a little embarrassed, so she slapped her on the face. This slap made her mother cry in front of everyone. Maybe she feels that her mother has intellectual disability and has difficulty expressing herself, and is worried about her.

We asked Qihan’s mother. Qihan has been raised so well by her mother and has a caring personality. What can we do to help children? Qi Han’s mother said that children need gratitude education most. Sometimes she is very tired and it is not easy to tell her children about her difficulties, but the children seem to be completely unable to understand, which makes her very sad.

They need to be taught to accept the past.

No matter how bad their home or family (especially their parents) may seem to others, they need to learn acceptance. Only by learning to accept your bad family background and your unbearable parents can you learn to accept yourself. Only by learning to accept the past can we better face the present and move towards the future.

They need to be cultivated with grateful hearts.

They need to know that what they get and what they enjoy now may not be the best, but it is not the worst either. They need to understand that the people who love them do what they can for them, not out of obligation, but because of love.

Acceptance and gratitude are actually the education of love.

Only love can raise healthy children.

Only with love can we accept and be grateful.

Only love can make a difference.