Eleos Update

Each visit ignites a stronger urge to contribute to the well-being of these children, yet it also heightens our understanding that true assistance goes beyond mere handouts. We grapple with the challenge of providing hope while ensuring we don't hinder their personal development. In this edition, we explore this complex issue together by reflecting on the experiences of various children, focusing on the themes of hope and growth.

 

During the holiday, Xiaolin experienced another epileptic seizure. As it began, she sensed it coming, expressing to her mother that she felt dizzy and urged her to hurry. Thankfully, the episode was brief, and she recovered quickly, though it left her mother feeling quite anxious.

Nowadays, Xiaolin tends to avoid going out. She often remains at home, lacking friends to spend time with. We’re concerned that this lifestyle might weaken her immune system and make her more susceptible to colds.

Hope lies in the belief that her illness will not overshadow her future. 

Growth is the resilience she shows in overcoming each seizure. 

Hope is the promise that medication can alleviate the discomfort of her episodes. 

Growth is about opening her heart, allowing light and warmth to enter her life.

During the holiday, Xiao Su accidentally cut his hand with a sickle while helping his family by cutting grass. Unfortunately, he missed the optimal time for suturing the wound, which led to a more serious injury.

At dinner, Xiao Su found it difficult to pick up his food with his injured hand. The staff encouraged him to ask his friends for help. Xiao Shuo and Xiao Hao quickly stepped in, eager to assist Xiao Su in eating his meal.

 

Hope is knowing that sharing household chores is a commendable responsibility. 

Growth is understanding that sometimes, one must find strength to navigate life's challenges. 

Hope is the warmth of support from friends, as comforting as a sweet fragrance.

Growth is embracing the belief in love, a steadfast principle that remains in our hearts.

Yilin has always struggled to find motivation in his studies and expressed uncertainty about his future after graduating from junior high school. However, during a recent dinner, a classmate shared some encouraging news: Yilin had recently received praise from his teacher. When we brought this up, Yilin confidently confirmed it, mentioning that he had been recognized in front of the entire class for scoring 28 points in history—just two points shy of passing (the full score being 50 and the passing score 30). This moment reminded us that every child yearns to be seen and appreciated.

Hope is the understanding that grades do not define your life.

Growth is about embracing your responsibilities. 

Hope is knowing that every effort deserves recognition.

Growth is the realization that with hard work, you can achieve even greater things.

After more than a year of rehabilitation, Ruiying has made a remarkable recovery and returned to school. What she has been through is unimaginable for children her age. Ruiying is a resilient young lady who tackles challenges independently. Last year, she traveled alone to Hohhot for medical treatment, spending several months there and navigating hospital visits by herself. She also managed to gather the necessary information for her school after classes resumed. She shared that her father works in Xuejiawan. After all she has endured, Ruiying is becoming increasingly mature.

Hope is the belief that illness and darkness cannot hold you back. 

Growth is finding strength in silence and using courage to help guide you. 

Hope is knowing that the future lies beneath your feet, with support behind you. 

Growth is the quiet strength that develops in solitude.

To conclude, we’d like to share a quote: "Empower the person you want to help until the day they no longer need you and can confidently navigate their own life." The goal of "helpers" is to enable those they assist to cultivate their own strength, so they can not only support themselves but also uplift those around them. This is our mission as well.