Wednesday, September 18, 2024

What is Love?

Genuine love operates in silence. 




In every family facing challenges and fractures, the silent acts of love from family members offer hope without seeking attention or recognition. Amid the chaos of life, let us come together to uncover the profound love found in quiet moments.


01

Love is akin to the small tricycle that is diligently ridden every day.


In Xiaona's family, only Xiaona and her grandmother work to make ends meet. Upon arriving at their home, we discovered that they had not returned from selling watermelons in a neighboring village as their tricycle had run out of power midway.



Ziwei is cared for by her elderly grandparents. Despite being around 70 years old, they venture out daily on a tricycle to gather grass for their sheep.



For Xiaona's and Ziwei's grandmothers, the tricycle serves as both a source of income and a vessel for their love towards their families and children. This love may be a weighty burden, but its value is immeasurable.


02

Love is to carry the whole family with one hand.


Despite his physical limitations, Jiaxi's father perseveres in delivering takeout daily. Maneuvering his electric bike with only one hand, he remains determined and optimistic. He acknowledges that he may be slower than others, completing six or seven orders instead of ten, but he embraces his pace, emphasizing that it doesn't diminish his efforts.


Dad also revealed that Jiaxi thoroughly enjoyed his time at summer camp. Watching videos of Jiaxi engaging in various vibrant activities moved him deeply. 

 


In a world where speed is often prioritized, he emphasized the importance of embracing a slower pace. In a society that values competition and comparison, learning to accept and appreciate slowness is a valuable practice. By slowing down, avoiding the urge to compete or compare, and allowing love to develop and grow gradually, one can experience the quiet and powerful growth akin to the gentle, nourishing touch of spring rain.


03

Love speaks in whispers.


Living in a world of silence, Siqi's mother communicates her love for her family through silent gestures. She meticulously maintains their home, ensuring it is always orderly, warm, and inviting. Every detail, from the placement of green plants to the overall ambiance, exudes warmth and comfort.


Using sign language, she conveys her gratitude and invites her loved ones for dinner. As they leave, she reminds them to dress warmly for the windy weather.



While language is a common medium for expressing affection, its words can sometimes fall short. In the silent realm of those like Siqi's mother, love manifests through subtle glances and gentle actions, often overlooked by many.


04

Love is steadfast support.


Despite not attending a prestigious high school in Hohhot, Aoying was accepted into his preferred school after the entrance exam. Since there are no dormitories at school, he lives in a small room close to the school. His diligent efforts shine brightly.


His elderly grandparents are overjoyed and have silently provided unwavering support to Aoying. Upon returning home, they create a conducive learning environment for him. The grandfather continues working as a security guard to support the family and save for Aoying's college education.



True love is witnessing your loved ones thrive.

True love stands by you unwaveringly.

True love involves long-term planning for your well-being,

Even if you are unaware of it all.


Silent love exists in the quiet corners,

Among the hushed crowds.


Discovering and feeling with our hearts are essential

To recognizing silent love.


Love deeply and silently.


 

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